Q1 2026: The Paternity Quarter

What I'm doing from January 6 to April 6, 2026

Who I am
  1. I am a man who builds
  2. I am a father who shares the load
  3. I am a husband who serves
  4. I am a man who cultivates himself

The Rules

Time Budget

3 days/week
3 hours nanny time (9 hrs/week focused)
Weekday evenings
1-2 hours (nap time, unpredictable)
Nights
1-2 hours (not always)
Weekends
variable, good for physical tasks (lamps, frames)

Point Reward System

Convertion Rate: 1 pt = 3€
Quest TierPoints
Tiny1
Small3
Medium5
Big7
Huge10
Habit PerformancePoints
75%+5
50-75%3
25-50%1
Below 25%0
Habit Streak Bonus (50%+)Points
2 weeks+1
3 weeks+2
4+ weeks+3
HobbyPoints
Book read5
Videogame properly played3
Audiobooks listened2
Boardgame play session1

Quests

Home

QuestPointsNotes
Lamps1Weekend task. Just do it.
EV station1Coordinate installation completion after technician visit
Cleaner conversation1January. Decision made, just talk.
Zoe’s door3Look for a new door and install + refund errand at the shop
Curtains5Message store → review with Laura → order → oversee install
Fix Sofa5Review the damage and do the best approach to fixing it.
ITV7 OVERDUE. List repairs → pick mechanic → book → solve Diego logistics → repairs → book ITV → pass
Laundry room10Phase 1: scout materials, propose to Laura, buy. Phase 2: coordinate handyman.

Blockers:

  • ITV blocked by car repairs
  • Zoe’s door: first time, might have unknowns

Kids

QuestPointsNotes
Diego’s trolley3Diagnose Bugaboo Fox 5 handle issue. DIY fix. Check support if stuck.
Zoe’s bed transition5Blocked by door. Then consistency habit.
Potty training Zoe10Step 1: research methods. Then start and stick.

Blockers:

  • Zoe’s bed blocked by security door

Laura

QuestPointsNotes
Economy session1Review process, do it. Recurring.
Birthday January 15th. List ideas, buy present, decide kids’ present. No points. Love doesn’t earn rewards.
Pitaya bufferNot a quest. Ongoing availability for her business.

Work

QuestPointsNotes
Calendar update1Block out leave dates.
Paternity bureaucracy3 ASAP. One hour, two websites, five actions. Bonus: update shared holiday file.
Performance evaluations6 docs, ~2 hrs each, LLM-assisted. January. No points — work pays you.

Personal

QuestPointsNotes
Bookshelf1Just do it.
Frames1Just do it.
CGT order1Review process, contact about missing Dragons of Etheriors, follow up.
Kira’s nails1One-time bonus quest.
Configure laptop3 Blocker for Yawl and Tinkerer Tools. Priority.
Winter sale games-7 January 10th. Return what you didn’t like, set purchase limit. Miss deadline = lose 7 pts.
Photo album5Nice to have. Both select from phones → compile → print. Zoe’s first 2 years.
Yawl7Ship to Product Hunt.
Homelab10Self-host streaming, cancel subscriptions. Blocked 1-2 weeks by equipment delivery.

Blockers:

  • Laptop blocks Yawl and Tinkerer Tools
  • Homelab blocked by equipment arriving

Deadlines

DateItem
Jan 10Winter sale games (or -7 pts)
Jan 15Laura’s birthday
JanuaryCleaner conversation
JanuaryPerformance evaluations
ASAPPaternity bureaucracy
ASAPITV (overdue)
1-2 weeksHomelab equipment arrives
Apr 6Paternity ends

Weekly Habits

30 checkboxes per week
HabitTargetRecurrence
Tinkerer Tools writing10 min4/week
Friend check-ins10 min WhatsApp7/week
Meditate10 min5/week
No alcohol7/week
No sugar7/week

Monthly Hobby Goals

  • 3 games properly played
  • 6 books read (including audiobooks)
  • 15+ boardgame plays

Success Looks Like

By April 6th, if you’ve done these, the quarter was a win:

  • Laundry room done
  • Curtains up
  • Homelab working
  • Zoe in her bed
  • Zoe better at potty
  • Tinkerer Tools with more content
  • Projects moving forward
Laura is my accountability partner.

Point Tracker

WEEK 01Jan 6-12
QUESTS+9
Returned Winter sale games0
Cleaner conversation1
Calendar update1
Kira's nails1
Configure laptop3
Paternity bureaucracy3
HABITS+1
Writing
Meditate
Friends
No alcohol
No sugar
11/30 checks37%
HOBBIES+1
Boardgame play session: Black Sonata1
STREAK
Total
11
Spent
0
Balance
11